To help young school-age children with DLD, we need to foster strengths and abilities to counter the challenges

The big picture:

We spend a lot of time talking about the impairments of young school-age children with Developmental Language Disorder (DLD). But that’s not the whole story.

Challenges:

DLD is not a gift or a superpower. DLD:

  • affects the learning, understanding and expression of spoken and written language;
  • affects functioning in everyday social, community, and academic activities (because they require language skills);
  • makes it harder to forge and maintain friendships; and
  • often contributes to communication avoidance and frustration in everyday life.

Strengths and abilities:

As a group, young school-age children with DLD present with strengths, including with:

  • domestic and personal aspects of daily living (e.g. chores, bathing, dressing);
  • play and coping aspects of socialisation (e.g. sharing toys and good sportsmanship); and
  • gross motor function.

Zoom in:

Parents of young school-age children with DLD and other caregivers frequently express pride in their children’s abilities to:  

  • maintain caring relationships with family members (e.g. with siblings);
  • help and empathise with others (e.g. parents, teachers, classmates);
  • behave well without prompting; and
  • overcome internal obstacles (like shyness or frustration) to give things a go. 

Why it matters

  • Many young school-age children with DLD exhibit lots of positive behaviours that show kindness, bravery, resilience, and a desire to take charge of their own lives. 
  • We should support young children with DLD to use their abilities to counter some of the negative effects of DLD. 

How to help:

Encourage young school-age children with DLD to:

  • use their strengths, e.g., with helpful chores at home, team sports, community volunteering, ordering things in shops (see links for some practical suggestions); and
  • back themselves to keep working on goals that require communication skills, e.g., by:
    • creating or choosing settings in which they feel safe to take risks with learning and talking, and to practice talking with others; and
    • providing explicit and scaffolded support to improve spoken and written language skills required for longer-term social, school, work, and life success. 

Go deeper:

McGregor, K.K., Ohlmann, N., Eden,​ N., Arbisi-Kelm​, T., and Young, ​A. (2023). Abilities and Disabilities Among Children With​ Developmental Language Disorder​. Language, Speech, and Hearing Services in Schools​, 54​, 927–951 (Open access)

Read more:

Friends are the key: Parents play an important role in helping children with Developmental Language Disorder to fit in

Parents of children aged 6 – 12 years: 11 practical ideas to increase your child’s participation and communication skills 

Get out there! Being social and kind to others makes kids happier

Free DLD Guide for Families

Help for Disorganised Students

Help for Reluctant Writers

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Principal Speech Pathologist, Banter Speech & Language

Our talented team of certified practising speech pathologists provide unhurried, personalised and evidence-based speech pathology care to children and adults in the Inner West of Sydney and beyond, both in our clinic and via telehealth.

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